So, this kind of traveling is nothing new to me. I’ve always had wanderlust. My first big trip I quit my first real job and went to Africa for two months. It was a big step for me – moving out of my house, storing my car, and the uncertainty of not knowing what would happen when I returned. Would I regret quitting my job? Well, the answer was no. I loved the trip and have never regretted anything about it.
Jason shares the same sense of adventure as me and since we started dating back in 2001, we seem to go on big trips every few years. We both quit our jobs and went to Alaska – twice. We put our stuff in storage and took a trip up the east coast over the course of a few months. This kind of traveling is nothing new to us.
However, as we get older and more of friends have “settled down”, I feel more guilt for my lifestyle. I know that I am extremely fortunate. I hate that my friends at home are suffering through the winter, as well as their jobs. I hate that my parents want to retire, but need to work a few more years.
Jason and I have intentionally planned our lives to have this freedom. We always save our money for trips and experiences rather than spending our money on possessions. I’ve never bought a TV and we use Jason’s TV that he had as an undergraduate. We have hand me down furniture and used furniture. It wasn’t until 2009 that we bought a brand new piece of furniture. We make do with what we have, resisting the urge to upgrade or buy things we don’t need. We share a cell phone – a very basic cell phone. We get basic cable. Jason has never had a new car – always used. When my car was totaled instead of buying a new car, we made due with one car for a year and half before I got my mom’s 1999 Honda. We’ve never had a pet, no kids. We can live on very little money and are not tied down to our possessions or house.
Jason started his own online business that gives him the freedom to work from any where. It didn’t come easily. For years he worked full time and then spent his evenings working on his own business. He still works a ridiculous amount – even on “vacation”.
I know we’ll still get comments from our friends about on how jealous they are, but it has nothing to do with luck. We didn’t win the lottery or win a vacation – we worked for it and have made sacrifices over the years to have the freedom we enjoy today.